Dear Nicole: What do you do when a friend starts a Kickstarter for something you don’t think is appropriate? — Fundless I think as a society we are collectively sick of people using these social fundraising sites to, say, fundraise for a lavish wedding or a vacation. No one is making you have a $20,000 …
Dear Nicole: I went to the drive-thru of a chain restaurant in Ellsworth recently and the person handing me my food was nice enough but had all kinds of facial piercings. Half of them looked inflamed and infected. I almost threw up. I know these are entry-level positions, but aren’t there any standards? — Don’t …
Dear Nicole: How snarky can I be on social media? My wife tells me to dial it back, while my friends are encouraging me to snark away. — Signed, That Guy Here’s the thing, That Guy. We all kind of want to be you. We wish we could say the snarky things you are saying. …
Dear Nicole: I heard from a mutual friend that one of our couple friends (let’s call them Stan and Fran) are dry, even to the point of having gone to some AA meetings. Then not even two weeks later, I heard from a different mutual friend that Stan and Fran were splitting a bottle of …
Q: I am an older person just re-entering the dating scene. I saw you answered a letter a few months ago about a 30-something getting back in the game, but what about those of us who think “tinder” is a way to start a fire in our woodstove? — Aging and Dating A: Just …
Dear Nicole, My coworker is on Facebook all day. She distracts me with her typing. I’ve tried to go to my boss with this but it is clear she’s not going to do anything about my socially networked coworker. Meanwhile I am picking up the slack. Help. Don’t Want To Be Your Friend Sounds like …
Dear Nicole: Here’s the dilemma. We can’t act, look or live our age. Most of those in our four-score and 10-plus years (and many way younger) here are flabby, inactive, dull and wear old people’s clothes (you know, the baggy things). And, this includes both species: native and from away. Hey, can we say that …
Dear Nicole: My husband and I have a 13-year-old dog that we both love dearly. While still relatively healthy, Tink is starting to have some health issues and this is causing a rift in our relationship. My philosophy about pet ownership has always been straightforward. You love them, give them a happy, safe life and …
Dear Nicole: What are your thoughts about shooting to date someone who’s out of your league? I’m just a regular guy, my pickup truck is only two-wheel drive, and I don’t have enough disposable income to vacation anywhere fancy (or anywhere for that matter.) There’s this summer girl over in Northeast Harbor who is gorgeous. …
Dear Nicole: My son’s father is in a relationship with a woman who also has a child. They have been putting pressure on my son to call her son his “brother.” How can I help them understand that this isn’t OK to do that to him and he should be able to label relationships how …
Dear Nicole: My wife and I just retired to the area and love it. She is from western Maine and I grew up in Wisconsin. I’ve noticed something that I find odd. Oftentimes in conversation a local will say to me, “Well, you’re from away,” as if to explain my comment or question. While they …
Dear Nicole: If your BFF was encouraging you to do something that wasn’t appropriate, and you both knew it wasn’t appropriate, would you think she was trying to sabotage you? It’s nothing illegal or anything. She just keeps making suggestions that I wear stuff on first dates that is WAY too racy. What is she …
